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4. Code of Conduct for Parents & Spectators


Parents/spectators have a great influence on children’s enjoyment and success in football. All children play football because they first and foremost love the game – it’s fun. It is important to remember that however good a child becomes at football within your club, it is important to reinforce the message to parents/spectators that positive encouragement will contribute to:

  • Children enjoying football
  • A sense of personal achievement
  • Self-esteem
  • Improvement in the child’s skills and techniques.

A parent’s/spectator’s expectations and attitudes have a significant bearing on a child’s attitude towards:
  • Other players
  • Officials
  • Managers
  • Spectators

Ensure that parents/spectators within the club are always positive and encouraging towards all of the children, not just their own.
Encourage parents/spectators to:
  • Applaud the opposition as well as your own team
  • Avoid coaching the child during the game
  • Not to shout and scream
  • Respect the referee’s decision
  • Give attention to each of the children involved in football, not just the most talented
  • Give encouragement to everyone to participate in football.

Ensure that parents/spectators within the club agree and adhere to the BWFC Code of Conduct and Safeguarding Children Policy.

The club expects all parents and spectators to:

  • Provide transport to players for both training and matches
  • Support the team manager, team and players.
  • Be positive role models in terms of language, attitude, restraint and sportsmanship.
  • Use positive comments only – encourage rather than discourage.

The following will not be tolerated by the Club and is deemed completely unacceptable behaviour:

  • Verbal abuse.
  • Negative comments
  • Entering the field of play.
  • Obscene or discriminatory language.
  • Arguing with officials or opposition supporters.
  • Supporting bad behaviour of players
  • Interfering in the Managers role.
  • Racism.